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The Dodger Divorce case grinds on

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News in the McCourt divorce case:

The new owners of the Los Angeles Dodgers must make public a single document that reveals their financial arrangement with previous owner Frank McCourt, under a ruling made on Wednesday by a judge in Los Angeles.

The judge rejected Guggenheim Baseball Management’s motion to seal the document, part of a divorce proceeding between McCourt and his ex-wife Jamie McCourt. In 2011, Jamie McCourt agreed to give up claims that she owned half of the baseball team in exchange for $131 million. During a Chapter 11 reorganization, Frank McCourt later sold the Dodgers for $2.15 billion to a consortium led by Chicago’s Guggenheim Partners and former Los Angeles Lakers star Magic Johnson.

The sale prompted Jamie McCourt to move to set aside the settlement, claiming fraud.

She sought a document summarizing Guggenheim Partners’ financial arrangement with her ex-husband. Guggenheim, which had agreed to turn over the document, filed a motion to seal on May 13, claiming “confidential business information.”

In his ruling from the bench, Los Angeles County, Calif., Superior Court Judge Scott Gordon ordered that the document be made public.

Kelli Sager, a partner at Davis Wright Tremaine in Los Angeles, had opposed the motion to seal on behalf of the Los Angeles Times. In an emailed statement to The National Law Journal, she wrote: “We are pleased with the court’s ruling; it’s unfortunate that GBM [Guggenheim Baseball Management] sought to keep this document secret, but we are gratified that the judge recognized the important public interests involved.”

Gordon gave Guggenheim 10 days to seek a stay of his order. James Bates, a spokesman at Sitrick & Co., in an emailed statement on Guggenheim’s behalf, wrote: “We respect the court’s opinion, are not going to seek to appeal and will be cooperating accordingly.”

In April, Gordon held evidentiary hearings in the divorce case. In preparation for those hearings, Jamie McCourt had sought depositions of her ex-husband’s financial advisers, including Peter Cohen, senior managing director of Blackstone Advisory Partners. In an interview with Forbes, Cohen acknowledged that the $2.15 billion price “was not more than [he] anticipated on day one when [he] started on this.” On March 27, New York Supreme Court Judge Jeffrey Oing ordered Cohen to answer questions by Jamie McCourt’s lawyers.

On April 15, U.S. Bankruptcy Judge Kevin Gross, who oversaw the Dodgers’ bankruptcy, ruled that Jamie McCourt could not obtain documents that were part of confidential negotiations between Major League Baseball and Frank McCourt.

In its sealing motion, Guggenheim attorney David Enzminger, a partner at Winston & Strawn in Los Angeles, wrote that the firm had agreed to provide a summary of Frank McCourt’s financial benefits to Jamie McCourt if she would drop subpoenas of the team’s new owners and her request to depose Stan Kasten, the president of the Dodgers. Under that arrangement, however, the financial summary, which includes the Dodger sale price and a joint venture between Guggenheim and Frank McCourt to develop land, including the parking lot around Dodger Stadium, would be provided only under seal.

“The financial summary contains highly sensitive information related to ongoing business ventures between Guggenheim and Mr. McCourt,” Enzminger wrote. “This information is private and Guggenheim has an interest in maintaining it as such.”

In her filing for the Los Angeles Times, Sager wrote that the terms of the purchase are of “substantial public interest because they concern a major real estate transaction involving the ownership and control of Dodger Stadium, an iconic Southern California landmark with rich public involvement and a lurid history of real estate development.”

In response, Enzminger said in court papers that the confidentiality of Guggenheim’s business dealings overrode the public’s interest in “a popular American sport.”

Jamie McCourt’s attorney, Bertram Fields, a partner at Los Angeles-based Greenberg Glusker Fields Claman & Machtinger, said the agreement extended to Frank McCourt’s attorneys at Sullivan & Cromwell. One of those attorneys, Robert Sacks, a partner in the Los Angeles office, did not return a call for comment.

Fields said the document was important to Jamie McCourt’s argument that her ex-husband undervalued his team assets when negotiating the divorce settlement. “In other words, it showed that it was much more than the $2.15 billion that was announced in the papers because the papers hadn’t seen the whole deal,” Fields said.

It was unclear when the document would be made public. Just before Gordon’s ruling, Guggenheim filed a redacted version as a proposed alternative to unsealing the entire document. The redacted version states that Guggenheim agreed to purchase the land surrounding Dodger Stadium for $150 million as part of the joint venture with McCourt. The joint venture receives $14 million per year for use of that land, most of which is a parking lot.

Frank McCourt also received a free suite at Dodger Stadium that seats at least 20 people.

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June 13, 2013 at 11:27 pm

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NY Judge Refuses to Order Support for Jilted Girlfriend

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A New York judge has refused to order an advertising executive to make support payments to his former girlfriend, notwithstanding the exec’s promsies to support her, and his promises that if the couple ever broke up he would treat their separation as if they had been married. The former girlfriend had asked the court to impose a trust in her favor over certain of the defendant’s assets as a means of enforcing his promise – unfulfilled – to support her after the couple split up. In dismissing the claim for a constructive tryst, the court noted that the plaintiff had failed to establish 3 of the 4 legal requirements for the imposition of a constructive trust and that, in any event, longstanding New York policy recognizes that unmarried couples do not have the same property and financial rights that married couples do when a relationship ends. Which all goes to show that, yes, marriage does still matter, and that in some cases promises are worth the paper they are written on. An interesting question, which I will write more on when I am further into my research, is whether the court would have enforced the equivalent of a pre-marital agreement if the cad exec had put his promises in writing. Any New York folk have any insight into what NY law is on that question?

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March 26, 2010 at 10:18 am

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Some Practical Advice About Money

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There are two reasons family law will always be a busy area of practice.  The reasons are that there are two subjects we do not teach in school: conflict resolution and money management.  If people could manage their money or the conflict in their lives, the divorce business would be in for a major downturn.

Practical financial advice is hard to come by.  And we say this with some authority because we have been looking for professionals who understand household finance.  Yes, there are thousands of publications out there that will tell you how to ladder certificates of deposit or dollar cost average your way into index funds.  But, how much you spend on a car or an apartment often determines whether you have any money to invest at all.

Ironically, we found some sensible and practical advice in the September, 2009 issue of Glamour Magazine. No kidding.  Wedged in between Jessica Simpson’s views on men and three flat belly secrets we found an article by Sophia Banay supported by a woman named Galia Gichon who founded something called “Down to Earth Finance.”  The magazine is worth buying for all of the advice but the segment we particularly liked was the part discussing how to budget a $50,000 income.  Gichon breaks down expenses into four categories. She takes the budget and converts to monthly income of about $4150.  She appears to allow for income taxes although that number is not discussed.  But her breakdown is divided between:

Fixed expenses that don’t change monthly                         $1665 a month

Discretionary living expenses                                             $830-970 a month

Retirement savings                                                            $417 a month minimum

General Savings                                                                 $140-280 a month

Gichon comments that fixed expenses including rent, utilities and car payments should not consume more than 60% of your net income (gross income less income taxes).  She suggests that rent or mortgage payments should not exceed half of the fixed expense budget, although this can be a tough assignment in many urban parts of this country. But if that is where life takes you, the answer may be that you don’t drive the same car or limit your discretionary expenses.

Obviously, it is also possible to forego general savings, especially in a world where you are already saving for retirement.  The article suggests that discretionary expenses be limited to 30% of net pay.  This is where the weak tend to falter at the altar of clothing stores, restaurants and Starbucks.  Another contributor to the article, Maria Bartiromo of Closing Bell on CNBC sagely offers that you allow yourself a day before making any major discretionary purchase.  Time afford perspective and you may actually discover that television is almost as enjoyable on the 30 inch flat screen even though the 42 inch beckons.

The article also addresses the subject of debt.  In the past the standard advice is that you need to save three to six months income to cover you for the “rainy day” of illness or unemployment.  Today, consumer credit may fill in the gap, but we are finding that many people are already using their cards to fund expenses they can’t afford long before the rain day ever comes.  These are folks who simply cannot survive if a crisis emerges because they are already deep in high rate debt.

The goal is to budget but before you can intelligently budget you must first be thoroughly familiar with what you bring home and what you currently spend.  It is not a pretty task but people who want to have money when they stop working had better address the question sooner rather than later no matter what their marital status.

Source for post: Pennsylvania Family Law

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October 12, 2009 at 7:26 pm

5 Steps To Managing Your Money And Your Marriage

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In our society, money represents power, success, and often even your value as a person. We say (misquoting the Bible,) “Money is the root of all evil,” or “money is power;” or “he who has the gold, makes the rules.”  We consider it spiritual to take a vow of poverty, and we prosecute and convict people who get greedy.

Money is serious stuff. Some of us think people who make a lot of  money must lack character; others think poor people are morally deficient. These attitudes are not the way we want to think, they’re prejudices, acquired before we learned to think rationally. But these prejudices can cause huge troubles in marriage, including financial infidelity – where one or both parties spend money out of resentment,  jeopardizing the couple’s financial security.

Money issues couples fight about include: Who pays for what? Who keeps records, pays bills, controls budget, etc.? When, how and why do we spend money? One wants to save, the other wants to spend. How do we make big financial decisions? Or, perhaps, they can’t talk about money at all without arguing.

If you and your partner tend to think the business end of a relationship is not a romantic topic for courtship, you may not discuss it until you can’t avoid it, and then you fight. You may not think of your marriage as a business deal, but a huge part of it is just that. Just like a business, a marriage takes in income, pays expenses, and is supposed to have a little profit (savings) left over.

The business aspects of marriage are clear to me, because for 15 years before I went back to school and eventually became licensed as a therapist, I was an accountant in business. Just like a small business, your relationship has one or more sources of income, you have expenses, and, like a business, your marriage is supposed to make a profit — to create savings, investments and equity (which a business would call assets) and have money left over in the bank at the end of the month.

As partners in a marriage you have similar financial responsibilities to partners in a business. In fact, some businesses are called partnerships, and we often use the same word for relationships. Family members are somewhat like workers, when they do maintenance, chores and homework, and somewhat like clients, who receive services from the partners, Mom and Dad.

Mom and Dad are the Chief Operating and Financial Officers, who must figure out how to allocate the funds coming in, and how to provide the necessary guidance and services to their children and to each other. In business, there’s a lot of discussion about ‘corporate culture’ — the attitudes and practices within the business: how employees and executives deal with each other, the ethics of the company, and their focus, or lack thereof, on meeting goals and becoming successful.

Likewise, your marriage and family have a ‘family culture’ — how you interact as partners and family members; your mutual goals, hopes and dreams; and how successful or unsuccessful you are at meeting your goals. Obviously, a family culture that involves a lot of fighting about money will be less efficient and not as successful at meeting its goals.

No matter what your circumstances, creating financial security can make life easier. To do this, you must learn to manage your money wisely. The amount of money you bring in may not be large, but if you manage it well, it can be all you need. On the other hand, we have all heard stories of people who earned vast sums of money (lottery winners, celebrities or dot-com millionaires, for example) and who squandered it until they had nothing left.

The amount of your income will not determine the amount of your “family profit” unless you manage it well. When you work together to handle your finances intelligently, you can create the financial security you need to live life comfortably. When your partnership extends to making smooth financial decisions and meeting your money goals without struggling and arguing, you’ll find that everything else you do becomes less stressful.


USING BUSINESS SKILLS AT HOME

Viewing your family dispassionately as a business doesn’t sound romantic, but if you can step back from your feelings long enough to view your relationship from this perspective, your financial situation make more sense, money problems will be easier to solve, and you’ll be able to discuss financial decisions with less difficulty. Here are some guidelines for using business skills at home.

1. Don’t React — Respond.
As I said in the previous chapter, neither of you would argue with the boss, colleagues at work, or a child’s teacher the way you argue with each other. Even if your boss makes you angry, most likely you would use self-control at the office, and blow off steam in private to your co-workers or a friend. Then, when you had a chance to think about the situation, you’d develop a better way of handling it, and perhaps approach your boss with a considered solution. You can do the same thing with your spouse when you have a money problem.  Instead of saying the first thing that occurs to you, such as criticism or blaming, stop and think of a response more likely to lead to a discussion of the problem, rather than an argument.

2. Use positive manipulation.
We often think of manipulation as a bad thing, as dishonest. However, acting in a way that makes it more likely to get a good response is not always deceitful or insidious. When you present an idea or solution, think about what your spouse would like about it, and lead with that. “Honey, you know that new car you’ve been wanting? I think I have a way for us to get it.. We could take out some equity on the house to renovate the kitchen, we could get your new car, and the interest would be so much cheaper than a car loan.” This is truthful, thoughtful, and clearly shows the husband how both of their wants can be taken care of, so it’s more likely to get a positive response.

3. Have a Formal Meeting.
Just as you would in business, sit down for a real meeting about important financial issues. Don’t expect to be able to discuss finances successfully while you’re on the run, when it’s late at night, or while watching TV. Instead, make a date for discussing finances, and take the time to sit down together, with all the proper information, and discuss your needs, wants and means. Follow a meeting method like Robert’s Rules of Order, to keep the discussion on track. If a difficult problem arises, use the problem solving skills at the end of this chapter.

4. Take Finances Seriously.
Healthy businesses keep a close eye on the bottom line. In marriage, this means being careful about your money, but also not using money as a weapon against each other, or being irresponsible about it. A successful, happy marriage requires that both partners act like grownups. It’s not surprising if you have disagreements about how much to save, when and what to spend and who makes financial decisions, because such differences are normal between people. If you take them seriously, and sit down to solve them together with mutual good will, your different points of view will become assets, not problems.

5. Check in Regularly.
As you do in business, have a brief check-in as frequently as possible. In the morning, or the night before, compare your daily schedules. Even if the things on your schedule don’t really involve your spouse, mention them, so that each of you will know if you’re facing anything important, or challenging in the day ahead. When you have an idea of what’s involved in each others’ daily lives while you’re apart, you will be much more able to respond in a helpful fashion to each other, especially when sudden changes or problems arise.  For example, you can say I have to pick up some clients at the airport today, and I don’t know what the traffic will be like, so I could be late tonight.”

When you follow these guidelines for handling money together, you’ll understand each other better, and you’ll both understand your goals and feel more motivated to follow the plans you make.

Source: Divorce360.com

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April 3, 2009 at 9:47 pm

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Work On Your Credit Score Before Divorce

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On a couple’s wedding day, divorce is the furthest thing from their minds. At such a wonderful, joyous time in one’s life, it is difficult to consider the possibility that the relationship will end. However it does occur on occasion. Many people get married every day and over half the population has been divorced. In the beginning the bad credit of your partner can be overlooked, but not for long. Sometimes, the stress of dealing with financial issues can ruin the relationship before the couple takes their first steps down the aisle. Still others may become vengeful, wanting to place their ex deep in debt.

When you get married, you are only responsible for debt you incurred as a couple. Keep in mind that, as a couple, one person’s bad credit rating will affect the both of you when trying to get a loan or a line of credit. Don’t be surprised when these joint applications are turned down. It is essential that you both discuss your finances before you walk down the aisle. Many marriages break up because of financial difficulties. Many couples avoid discussing financial arrangements in hopes that the subject will not rear its ugly head. Unfortunately, that usually indicates that it will.

Keeping on top of a situation has never had a negative effect on any relationship, and open communication will only make the relationship stronger. You should each obtain a copy of your credit report, then sit and have an open conversation about finances. After speaking openly, enlist the aid of a professional and consolidate all your debt. You can alleviate any future problems if you consult with an expert who will be completely honest with you. If you and your spouse can’t come to an agreement regarding an issue, you should have your debt manager’s contact information close at hand to avoid an argument. Of course, this won’t work for divorcing couples. If by chance your divorce is amicable, get ready to hate each other at least some of the time and to disagree often. Truthfully speaking, if you really did get along so well, you probably wouldn’t be divorcing.

After a divorce, you must protect yourself. You should alert the credit reporting agencies when you separate or divorce. All the important information will then be recorded for each of you separately and the agencies will help you make individual transactions. You should make sure that anyone you still owe money to has your updated contact information. Even though it may seem childish, divorced people have a habit of tossing away their former spouse’s mail. Following a divorce, close all joint accounts and pay all balances if possible. If there was a substantial amount of debt acquired during your marriage, you should consult with your attorney about including a plan to resolve the situation during your divorce proceedings. As far as divorce is concerned, get everything in writing or it won’t hold water.

Although your marriage may not be forever, credit problems can be. Regardless of how much love you feel for your spouse, you need to protect your own interests. It sound awfully formal, but in the long run you will be thankful you did.

Source for post: Charles Sellestor

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January 27, 2009 at 9:17 pm

Posted in Divorce, Finances

Crash Causes Settlement Changes

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When John and his wife divorced, they agreed to sell their home. But every time they come close, his ex stalls “because she wants to buy it.” With the real estate market in a tailspin and the nation in a recession, “She feels prices will go down further,” which would enable her to buy it from him at a cheaper price.

To complicate matters, John, not his real name, recently lost his job in the financial industry. With the house issue looming, he’s already asked the court in his state to award him attorney’s fees since his wife filed for divorce. In addition, he’s considering a change to his property settlement: he may return to court to ask his ex for alimony, something he never would have done before the layoff.
According to legal experts from around the country, John’s tale isn’t unusual. The recession that’s affected every other aspect of America is now affecting family court as well. Clients are returning to court as a way to deal with financial hardships that are affecting their property settlement agreements.

“It’s happening because retirement accounts have dwindled to nothing for some people and a decree that gives you half of what was a robust account now gives you half of not much,” said retired attorney Brette Sember, author of a number of how-to books, including “The Divorce Organizer.”

Los Angeles, Calif., family law attorney Kelly Chang Rickert said her clients want to modify their judgments because their financial circumstances have changed dramatically. “Due to the economy and loss of jobs, I am seeing a lot more modifications to child support – reductions for the payor if they’re laid off and an increase for the recipient if they’re laid off…”

Another big recession issue: “Alimony needs to be increased for folks who have lost jobs,” Sember said. In some cases, according to Chang Rickert, she’s even seeing changes in child custody arrangements because “parents who have been laid off have more time to spend with children.”

A new mom herself, Chang Rickert has noticed “nannies and housekeepers are getting laid off because parents who have no jobs have more time” to spend at home.

California family law attorney David Pisarra said he’s seen so many clients dealing with this issue that he’s rolled out a new payment program – charging only a flat fee – “to address this new need”Sember said.

John’s not the only one in a quandary over the inability to sell his marital home. Many property settlements state that the divorcing couple will sell their home, but “Many people can’t sell and need to know what to do if they can’t,”said Pisarra .

Source for post: Divorce360.com

Written by Mark Jakubik

December 7, 2008 at 8:01 pm

Posted in Divorce, Finances

Housing Reform Package May Not Help Divorcing Couples

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The proposed housing reform package may offer some bail-outs for those who have experienced losses as a result of the downturn in the housing market, but it may not offer enough help for average families trying to get out from under overwhelming mortgages, especially if those families are trying to divorce and complete settlement negotiations.

The Foreclosure Prevention Act of 2008, a bipartisan bill proposed by Senators Chris Dodd (D-Conn.) and Richard Shelby (R-Ala.) is intended to head off the nation’s housing crisis. However, divorce financial analysts question whether it goes far enough to help families avoid foreclosure, especially divorcing couples trying to hammer out settlements.

The bill has yet to face a vote in the U.S. Senate. After that, a similar bill must make it through the U.S. House of Representatives. Some highlights of the Senate bill:

  • A $7,000 tax break, spread over two years, to homeowners who buy homes in or near foreclosure.
  • A tax credit for homebuilders who have experienced financial losses during the past two years.
  • A total of $100 million allocated to debt counseling to aid families in avoiding foreclosure.
  • Tax-free revenue bonds to help families refinance their mortgages.

But that might not be enough, said Stacy Francis, a certified divorce financial analyst and president of Francis Financial, in New York City. “It’s a great bill in the sense that it is moving in the right direction,” Francis said. “I have to say, though, I don’t think it goes far enough to remove the pressures that couples are facing like high mortgage payments and oppressive taxes.”

Divorce is one of the greatest triggers of foreclosure, Francis said, so many of the families in dire financial straits may be those who are also trying to navigate divorce settlements. “It helps them give them the tools so they don’t necessarily have to forclose,” Francis said. “Sadly, it doesn’t do enough.”

She said that one of the elements of the bill that was denied was modifying mortgages to allow for lower payments. She said that the provision was removed to avoid mortgage lenders’ responses of tightening standards for granting mortgages, but the caution seems misplaced in light of the fact that the lenders are already increasing their requirements. “The days of the 100 percent financing… those days are gone,” Francis said.

SOME ASSISTANCE IN PROPOSED BILL

Some of the most positive elements of the proposed bill for divorcing couples are the tax deductions for new property taxes because they will offer help after the negotiations are completed and the spouses are setting out on their own, Francis said. The same is true for the tax breaks for those who have bought foreclosed properties, she said, if those buyers are coming out of a divorce.

Another positive allocation is to providing debt counseling services to those facing foreclosure, Francis said.  Divorcing couples whose homes may be near foreclosure can use the counseling to learn how to spend their money more wisely and to reprioritize where their money is going, Francis said. “I think anyone going through divorce, and anyone in general, can have better clarity about their expenses.”

Clients who are in the middle of divorce proceedings tend to respond to the emotional upheaval by spending more money during shopping sprees for nonessential items, Francis said. “It is one of the most traumatic times in your life,” Francis said. “One of the ways people deal with that is spending therapy. Deep down inside they have this unbelievable wound.”

For those people, financial counseling can help redirect their spending to the essentials in their lives, she said. “The number one place people need to be paying their money is paying down their mortgages,” Francis said. “Food is right there, too, and the basics of clothing.”

And if it seems as if foreclosure is on the horizon, then they must consider selling their homes, Francis said. It is one of the most difficult decisions a divorcing couple may have to make, she said, but it may be unavoidable. “If it’s bad now, what’s it going to be like for you in a few years? I think that’s a real frank discussion that you need to have. A hard one, but a frank one,” Francis said. “People like to keep the home, and you have to make sure you truly can afford it.”

SELLING A HOME TO AVOID FORECLOSURE

For couples who find they can’t afford their mortgages either together or alone, selling is probably the best solution, said Linda Leitz, a certified divorce financial analyst with Divorce Solutions, Inc., in Colorado Springs, Colo. She said she often sees couples in which one spouse wants to keep the house, and needs help doing so, and the other wants to sell the house and get out from under the mortgage. She said the question becomes: Which spouse will bear the heaviest burden and take on an overwhelming mortgage? “Both people have to share the asset and share the pain,” Leitz said.

She said she is conflicted about the proposed legislation because she doesn’t want to see couples financially ruined by their mortgages, but then she also wants people to take responsibility for the financial straits in which they find themselves. So when divorcing couples are facing the difficult decision about whether to try to save the house or cut their losses, Leitz said, she said the only answer may be to sell.

“I think if they are concerned about it, they may need to do what is considered the worst case scenario for many of them, which is to sell the house right now,” Leitz said. “If they can’t agree on how to share that burden, that that’s what they are going to need to do.”

TOO LATE FOR DIVORCING COUPLES

The proposed package may not even be relevant to divorcing couples, said Rita Medaglio-Barrera, a certified divorce financial analyst and collaborative divorce financial specialist with Paragon Divorce Management, LLC in Smithtown, N.Y. “I don’t think that its going to do much for couples that are in a house that is currently foreclosed,” Medaglio-Barrera said. “That package is really helping the builders, more than the consumers. I don’t see it impacting divorcing couples.”

She foresees the housing rescue package becoming an issue to couples after they have completed their divorce settlements, they have sold their joint home, and they are looking to buy homes on their own. After the divorcing couples have waded through their own debts, when they have split their equities, then they will be considering buying or renting their own homes. She said the lower housing costs, especially the costs of homes nearing foreclosure, will become an asset at that point.

But during that process, Medaglio-Barrera said, the Foreclosure Prevention Act will not offer much assistance. “It’s unfortunate that it won’t be helping as many people as it should,” Medaglio-Barrera said.

Source for post: Divorce360.com

Written by Mark Jakubik

May 11, 2008 at 11:21 pm

Posted in Divorce, Finances

Is April 16 National Divorce Day?

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April 16 is National Divorce Day, according to Beverly Pekala, a Chicago divorce attorney who specializes in family law. She maintains that more people file for divorce the day after the federal tax deadline than any other day of the year. Money, she said, is at the heart of the problem.

That’s because on April 15, the deadline for federal tax returns to be filed, many spouses learn about a partner’s financial worth by latching onto his or her tax returns, she said. “What I’ve learned, along with everyone else in this business, is that people wait until their taxes are filed to get a divorce,” Pekala said.

“Lots of times what happens, people who want a divorce come in right after the first of the year and ask their lawyer what they should be doing? “Their lawyer tells them they need financial information and suggest they wait until their taxes are filed. Once their taxes are filed that gives us a starting place. It may not be 100 percent accurate, but it still a good place to start,” she said.

The tax information gives women, in particular, helpful information. “Even in this day an age I had a women the other day that came in to see me about getting a divorce who told me, ‘I have no clue what my husband makes,'” Pekala said. “That’s not so strange because there are still women who take care of the house and kids and their husbands take care of the bills.”

The problem today is that, with direct deposit, online checking and payments and other paperless methods of hiding money, there is no longer a paper trail for the spouse who doesn’t pay attention to the financials. she said. “I had a client who came in yesterday to see me with a joint tax return. I took a look at it and told her, ‘You didn’t tell me you owned property in Florida?’ Her reply was, ‘I don’t.’ ‘Yes you do,’ I told her, ‘according to your joint tax return.’

Then there was the woman who was seeking a divorce and learned for the first time her husband was a high roller in Vegas. “On tax returns today, gambling winnings are shown. Casinos are required by law to report an individual’s winning to the IRS,” Pekala explained. “This client’s tax return showed that her husband had won substantial sums of money in Los Vegas. I said to the wife, ‘You must have enjoyed going to Vegas?’ ‘I’ve never gone to Vegas. I didn’t know anything about my husband having been there before,’ she told me.”

Ginita Wall, director of the Women’s Institute for Financial Education in San Diego, Calif., said Pekala’s comments ring true with her. “Oftentimes I’d find that people who were trying to hid financial information would get an extension and delay filing their tax returns until Oct. 15 to avoid having to produce the damning evidence.”

When an I.R.S. media relations spokesman in Washington, D.C., was asked about the divorce rate increasing the day after the tax deadline, he was clueless. “It’s not something we track,” he said.

He wasn’t the only one flummoxed by Pekala’s opinions. Elizabeth Lehane, a divorce financial planner and tax consultant from Oakdale, N.Y., said, “I’ve been in the financial planning and tax business for 28 years, and April 16, the day after taxes are due, means nothing to me as far as an influx in divorces are concerned.”

{Asked whether she felt, after 25 years as a divorce lawyer she had seen it all when it came to marital relations, Pekala said, “I woke up today and looked on Youtube and discovered someone had made a movie about their divorce. I knew then I hadn’t seen it all.”

Source: Divorce360.com

Written by Mark Jakubik

April 16, 2008 at 5:17 pm

Posted in Divorce, Finances, Taxes

Life Events Can Cause Problems With the IRS

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Did you know that changes in your lifestyle could affect your taxes? When these changes happen, you will need to make adjustments to avoid creating IRS Problems.

Have you recently gotten married? If you have changed your name, you will need to notify Social Security to get your name changed on your card. You will also want to check out community property issues.

Have you recently divorced? Again, if you have a name change, make sure you contact Social Security. You also need to be aware of innocent spouse relief especially if your ex-spouse has IRS Problems. There are child custody tax issues, alimony issues, and community property issues you need to be aware of.

If you have had a change of address, it is important to notify the IRS so you will continue to receive its correspondence. Use Form 8822 (Change of Address) for this notification. If you fail to do this, you might miss a correction notice, an audit notice, or notification of asset seizure. Remember to keep track of your moving expenses, as these may be deductible.

Have you had a child recently or adopted a child? You will now be able to receive child tax credit. Also, did you know you are allowed education credits?

A change in jobs or loss of a job will also affect your tax return. If you work in a job that allows you to receive tips, these need to be reported. If you use your home or car for business purposes, there are specific allowances for these. You will also want to check into cafeteria plans and medical savings accounts.

Have you become a first time homeowner or have you sold a house recently? Both of these processes will give you added tax allowances.

If your life has been affected by a disaster or theft, you may be able to receive tax relief. People with disabilities have specific allowances that apply to them.

If you have retired recently, your IRS status has changed. You will want to check out the allowances you are now able to take.

If you have experienced IRS Problems in the past and have chosen to file for bankruptcy, this will change how you prepare your taxes.

Source: IRS Problem Solver blog

Written by Mark Jakubik

April 12, 2008 at 11:24 pm

Divorce and Life Insurance Planning

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Divorce is never easy, and fear of one’s financial future often looms large. Property division, alimony, child support are usually negotiated. Then, if either or both spouses remarry, two or three sets of kids complicate matters.

Careful advisers always delve into the question of life insurance early in the process. What will happen, for example, if the person responsible for the alimony or child support dies? Here are some considerations for clients and their advisers:

Check and adjust beneficiary designations of all relevant policies. Then, six months or a year later, check them again to make sure no mistakes were made. Be sure to include group-life insurance in all such reviews. Do not assume the employer will take care of that. Only you can do so.

Review and adjust policy ownership as necessary. Policies that have built up cash value will be considered an asset that will figure into property division.

If one ex-spouse is entitled to payments for alimony or child support, he or she may want to insure that such benefits will continue even if the payer dies. Life insurance needs to be considered. If it is ordered by the court, it may be best for the beneficiary to own the policy on the life of the payer. If this is arranged, steps should be taken to be sure that policy ownership will revert to the payer at the end of the payment period.

There is often a concern in these circumstances that life-insurance benefits may never reach the children of the former marriage or, in other cases, the later marriage because the primary beneficiary does not see to it. It may be best for the concerned parent to set up a trust funded with life insurance to pay both the bills for these children as well as an intended inheritance.

On a related topic, if an older breadwinner marries for a second time to a much younger spouse, the children of the first marriage may be concerned that they will have to wait a long time for their inheritance that will come only after the death of the second, younger spouse. This can interfere with their relationship with that spouse. Life insurance on the breadwinner, payable directly to the children or to a trust for the children’s benefit, will negate that concern.

Source: The Cincinnati Enquirer

Written by Mark Jakubik

April 12, 2008 at 11:12 pm

Posted in Divorce, Finances